'What will be Will be'. 'If its not meant for you, it won't pass you'. Some sayings are wise and true. I understand these sayings. These sayings have being a great comfort and support throughout the years. Though they are sad. They make me feel helpless and hopeless. That life has a design and I am a bystander. This is untrue. I am not a bystander. We have desires and dreams and we, by design can be anything and anyone we chose to be. We must however, take action and show up. We must really pay attention to what is available to us. Be clear what it is we want, in who we want to be and be proactive then; what will be will be!